In just seven simple steps to the heart of your dream woman? With these dating tips that is possible. Your extensive online profile with the beautiful photo, your nice job and then a few quick emails have immediately led to success: a date! With your charming manner, your humor and your self-confident demeanor, as well as your knowledge about wine, you can quickly land. Yet in a dating world it has to be a little better than the others. It’s the little things and gestures that make a difference now. Seven points to convince your date of your qualities:
Make her better
If you have a dinner date with your date, you will leave nothing to fate. Otherwise, this date probably won’t stand out from the last three dates. Be at the agreed point a little earlier and choose the perfect seat in the restaurant. Inform the waiter that this is a special occasion for you and arrange a small surprise for dessert with him/her, for example!
Swim against the current
Ok, writing an email is free, fast and uncomplicated. Handwritten letters and cards are more out of the ordinary these days and leave a good impression! Send her a spontaneous card with a few personal sentences, such as This card reminds me of you and will make your day beautiful. She is guaranteed to call friends and confess this deed!
Actions instead of words
Show her your practical side, there’s nothing like a craftsman at home. Fix the dripping tap without asking her, offer her to hang paintings or a mirror that have been on the floor since she moved in. Or check her car oil level. It’s the unfinished little things that make a woman’s life difficult. Thankful looks and maybe a thank you kiss will be the reward.
Be the ‘victim’
Premier League or Champions League? Now you can score points. Declare that you prefer to spend time with her and plan a romantic evening, no, not in the pub around the corner with a big TV screen. Now all her friends will be angry, many women have to spend their evening with their husbands at home in front of the television. By the way: You shouldn’t tell her that your favorite team has already been eliminated or is only playing on Sunday and that your video recorder has long been programmed.
Give her small gifts
Here it is not about the price or the material value, but about the commitment or the mental undertaking of how you carry out your action. It is best to ask for small comments that really show that you have paid attention to them. Listen carefully when she tells something about her life, look over her shoulder while shopping or remember things she raves about.
Be a gentleman
Good manners are always in fashion: Hold the door for her, help her put on the coat and offer her an arm when you walk through busy streets. Be aware that the woman by your side is the most valuable thing you possess and you should treat her that way and not just on Sundays!
Stay spontaneous
Women are curious. For example, surprise her with a secret outing. Just betray her: I’ll pick you up at 11 o’clock, put on some thick clothes, but nothing green and don’t forget your sunglasses. And later send her in the wrong direction by sending: Oh yes, take your bikini too. You don’t have to organize a planned schnitzel tour, but visit a few interesting towns and keep the excitement going. Your imagination has no limits!
Show her that there is more to you than the competition! And that’s not that hard at all, right ?