The problem with dating is and remains that things can go wrong. During the movie, dinner or drinks you notice that he/she is not your type. Ideally, you would like to put together all the qualities of your date. Nowadays this is also possible with internet dating. Dating sites offer this option. But is it wise, and does this solve the date problem?
Online dating
- How it was ‘back in the day’
- Online dating
- Useful?
- Or not useful?
- Conclusion
How it was ‘back in the day’
Everyone has done it: had an old-fashioned date with someone you liked. You knew someone from school, work or from the nightlife who you liked. You would like to get to know him better and make arrangements with him. Catch a movie, go out for dinner or just have a drink. As long as it was fun.
Where the trouble comes!
The boy/girl you seemed to like so much turns out not to be your type at all, rejects you or doesn’t even show up. As a man or woman, boy or girl, you have tried thousands of times to find the right one. Dating, dating and more dating, but the true princess or prince on a white horse never comes along. You are tired of being rejected and are now ready for something serious.
Online dating
Various organizations have come up with the idea of setting up a website for people looking for a partner. These sites are called dating sites. They say they offer a solution to the long search and finding nothing.
How you can make yourself available:
- You look for a dating site (or dating sites) where you want to create an account
- You create an account
- You tell your character traits
- You place a photo on your profile (optional)
- You wait for comments
How to approach someone:
- You create an account or log in with your existing account
- You are looking for your ideal partner (age, build, skin color, religion, smoking yes/no, etc.)
- You send him/her a message
- You wait for an answer
Useful?
The advantages of online dating are the following:
- Your contacts have the characteristics you want
- You first have the opportunity to get to know the person better through email
- You have a lot of choice
- You don’t have to be shy when filling out a profile
Or not useful?
The disadvantages of online dating are:
- You only know the person from a photo
- Someone can pretend to be something other than what he is
- Too much enthusiasm which makes it disappointing
Conclusion
Dating remains a difficult thing. Whether you date online or in the pub; it remains a coincidence when the right one comes along. Even though you can compile your search results yourself. Online dating does not mean quickly searching and finding a partner. Since it is also very nice to be in the pub with friends, with a boy or girl in the cinema, having a nice meal or having a nice drink, dating remains something you should continue to do.