Is there anyone hindering your financial future or career goals? Fighting negativity drains precious energy that you want to use to move forward in life. Just avoid the other person or take even more radical measures: say goodbye.
Frugality mocked
If people in your circle of friends do not understand your spending habits, this is annoying. Suppose you want to skip purchasing the latest car model for a year. You may receive questions about this. Then don’t give extensive discourses. It is your choice. To keep your back straight, it is important that you have a clear goal for your saved money. Only if you have to spend a lot of money on repairs is it sometimes better to trade in your car for a younger model. If it is always a single person who has comments about your spending habits, you can speak to him in private. Indicate that his comments bother you. Very often it turns out that the other person is quite unsure of themselves. If he doesn’t stop with his comments, avoid him. Then just ,ban, him. Fighting negative people drains energy. You have better things to do.
Negative people drain energy
You know those people who say there’s no point in working hard. We call these toxic people. They poison their environment by their attitude. Own initiative is dismissed as pointless. Because of their appearance they drain your life energy. Avoid them. Once you realize who the hopeless cases are, avoid them. Don’t tell them about your future plans. It’s not that those people are deliberately working against you. However, they realize that if you are successful, their situation does not depend on fate, but that their misery is entirely their own fault. Just avoid these energy guzzlers. That’s the best tactic.
To fall off
If you indicate that you no longer eat cakes or snack because you are watching your diet, you can expect a number of reactions. Something along the lines of: ,Lose weight, why? You don’t need that anyway., Or comments like: ,There’s no point in paying attention to your food., The negative people subconsciously try to demotivate you because your success experiences point out their failures. Don’t be discouraged by these kinds of comments. It would be a shame if you lost your positivity or motivation as a result. Just avoid negative people otherwise their comments will eat away at you.
How do you say goodbye?
Why do we find it so difficult to say goodbye to people who repeatedly undermine our positive efforts? Holding on to the wrong friends can cost you the joy of life. In more serious cases, it slows down your career or brings you to the brink of bankruptcy. Unfortunately, it is less easy to avoid family in the long term. With friends you are not dependent on, you can follow two strategies. The first strategy is to try to repair the relationship. Indicate that you are demotivated by his comments and that you are seriously considering not seeing him again. If this conversation does not help, you can still decide to end the friendship. The second strategy is that you no longer contact yourself. There is a good chance that the relationship will die of its own accord.