Why does someone keep arguing at parties? Why is there always fight within the family during the holidays? Why does someone always have to be right, even when they are wrong? Why does someone interrupt someone else while telling a story? Why should someone have to prove the other person wrong by all means?
Argument, how does it start?
An argument during the holidays or a fight at a party, how does it start? It often starts with a disagreement. One is firmly convinced that the other is wrong and does everything he can to prove himself right. The other person insists that he is right. If no action is taken, arguments will arise.
While telling a story
It is not polite to argue during a festive gathering. Why should someone have to forcefully prove someone else wrong while telling a story? Why should anyone have to prove the other person wrong at all costs? The other person would no longer want anything to do with you and would no longer like you. Why wouldn’t you give the other person the chance to save face? Did the other person ask you for your opinion? It is quite possible that the other person did not feel any need to ask for your opinion.
Irritations
If the other person is interrupted while telling a story by someone who claims that the other person is wrong, irritations arise. The other person does his best to keep things fun during the party. Due to the irritation, the festive feeling among the partygoers disappeared in one fell swoop. It is much better to avoid arguing.
Arguing
There are true champions of argument. People who have to be right at all costs. People who stumble over every point and stubbornly insist that the other person is wrong. You don’t make friends with it and it gives the bystanders a very uncomfortable feeling. Bye festive mood!
Bitterness
How can you best deal with a difference of opinion? By avoiding arguing. Arguing spoiled the party. Nine times out of ten, a disagreement ends in a bitter fight, where both parties are firmly convinced that they are right. You can’t win an argument, but you can ruin a party. If you insist that the other person is wrong, you are telling the partygoers that the other person is a loser. The other person’s bitterness will be great, his pride will be hurt, he will hate you and he will never forget the incident.
Contradict
What’s the best way to antagonize someone? By contradicting that person and by continuing to insist that he is wrong. You won’t achieve anything by contradicting, arguing and picking fights: you won’t make any friends and you won’t get any further in business.
Victory
For some champion reason twisters, contradiction is a feeling of victory: you overcome the other with argument. If you indeed contradict a lot, pick fights and argue, you may occasionally achieve a victory, but you will never win back the other person’s goodwill. Never. If you ever need the other person in the future, you can shake it.
Desire
What lies behind someone who argues so much? What drives someone to constantly pick fights? Why does someone keep interrupting someone else? The cause is that such a person’s desire to be important has not been satisfied. Every person has a desire to be considered important. Someone who is always looking for arguments wants to satisfy his desire to be considered important. Once the importance is recognized, the arguing will end.