Indications that the partner is cheating

Cheating seems, if we can believe the figures, to be extremely common. Not only men, as initially assumed, but women in particular have been catching up recently. We are actively trying to deceive and deceive our permanent (marriage) partner in one way or another. What are the signs and characteristics of someone who is cheating? Do you suspect that your partner is cheating? You are unfaithful and exhibit strange behavior?

Fear of losing the partner

Many people sooner or later have to deal with infidelity within their relationship or marriage. The fear of losing the partner is great. Especially since it seems to be quite normal lately to cheat, both sexually and emotionally. The fear mainly arises from the fact that there is a chance that one will be forced to say goodbye to the permanent (marriage) partner. Saying goodbye is hard, even if it’s from an unfaithful partner.

Cheating and Infidelity: Clues and Signs:

Indications and characteristics that could mean that your permanent (marriage) partner is cheating:

Your partner has been behaving strangely lately, i.e.: differently than normal,
Your partner has been concerned with his/her appearance lately, goes to the gym a lot, shops a lot of new clothes and underwear and often goes to the hairdresser,
Your partner has been absent at strange times lately,
Your partner receives calls that are not intended for your ears,
Your partner hastily closes computer windows as soon as you enter the room,
Your partner is suddenly very interested in your work schedule and when you are or are not home,
Your partner immediately takes a shower when you get home,
Your partner changes clothes immediately upon returning home,
Your partner spends hours in front of the mirror, hardly ever before,
Your partner deletes a recently received text message immediately after reading it,
Your partner does not answer his cell phone in your presence after seeing who is calling,
Your partner shows no interest in your day,
Your partner is miles away with his thoughts,
Your partner has lately been working regularly and often overtime,
Your partner has recently started going to all the work drinks,
Your partner has recently arranged frequent company outings,
Your partner has started using a new email address outside his regular one,
Your partner is nervous and nervous.

Characteristic of cheating: constant harsh criticism

If your partner – who you suspect is cheating – in combination with a few clues as mentioned above, starts criticizing you excessively and out of all proportion, you actually know what time it is…

Harsh, extremely painful and unnecessary criticism

If your (marriage) partner has never criticized you so harshly before, and really puts you down unnecessarily, sometimes even in the presence of others, you can actually set the clock: Your (marriage) partner is cheating or is on the verge of point to cheat. Especially if he/she meets a number of instructions and indications stated above.

Are you unsure whether your partner is cheating?

Clues and signals that make you doubt whether your partner is faithful to you:

Your partner works late; you call his/her work and no one knows where your partner is. He/she left hours ago.
Your partner has lately often smelled of someone else’s perfume and/or aftershave,
Your partner suddenly has to go out almost every weekend for work,
Your partner has registered with one or even more dating sites and visits them regularly,
Your partner is performing far below par sexually,
Your partner suddenly has an STD: (venereal disease, sexually transmitted diseases) and it did not come from you,
Your partner has arranged to meet a friend and you later find out that your partner has not been there,
Your partner is not at all happy when you come home much earlier than usual and have to make an important phone call quickly,
Your partner has recently started coming home much too late after a sports evening,
Your partner is unreachable when you call; the mobile is switched off at strange times,
Your partner has lately regularly and often sought entertainment and entertainment outside of you,
Your partner spends a lot of time on his/her appearance when he/she just has to go into town or run an errand,
Your partner suddenly indicates during a conversation that cheating does not have to mean the end of a relationship (Huge alarm bells should be ringing now!)

Signs of cheating: Sudden changes and contradictions in your partner’s behavior

Indications of cheating can include: sudden major changes in life and major contradictions in your partner’s behavior:

In the past, your partner paid almost no attention to his/her appearance, but now he does.
Cheating used to be out of the question, but now your partner suddenly indicates that cheating does not have to be the end of a relationship.
In the past, your partner disapproved of cheating on his/her friends, but not anymore.
Your partner used to hate having to go to work drinks hours, but now your partner can no longer avoid it,
In the past, your partner’s mobile phone was never switched off, but now you regularly find yourself unable to reach your partner.
Before your partner was never absent with his/her thoughts, now your partner seems to be miles away with his/her thoughts,
In the past, your partner never took a shower immediately after returning home, but now he does.
In the past, your partner was never interested in your work schedule and what time you come home, but now he is.
Your partner used to call you for a chat during the day, now never,
In the past, your partner never had secretive telephone conversations, but now he does.
Your partner used to like to talk about his/her day, but now he/she falls silent,
Your partner used to be very satisfied and happy with your relationship, but recently your partner indicated that he or she is no longer happy with you…
In the past, your partner never had doubts about the future, but now he does.
In the past, your partner never rejected you sexually, but now he does.
In the past, your partner always confided in you about personal matters, but not anymore.

Free and open relationships

There can be no question of infidelity and cheating if the partners have decided together that they can have a free and open marriage or relationship, with sexual contacts with third parties. Make very clear agreements about this!

Be very sure before you accuse your partner of infidelity and cheating!

A change in your partner’s behavior does not necessarily mean that your partner is cheating! Please note that your regular partner MAY be organizing a surprise for you! Have you been married for so many years or together for so many years? Is your birthday coming soon? Stress, extreme fatigue and illness can also be causes of major changes in your partner’s behavior!

Doubts and doubts

I wish everyone who has nagging doubts about whether or not his/her (marriage) partner is cheating a lot of strength, wisdom and strength. Deep down you probably know what time it is.

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