It is over. Somehow your relationship has gone wrong. What is the best way to win your girlfriend back?
Spend your money wiser
You may have found yourself telling more and more white lies over the course of the relationship. Did you spend too much money on flashy gadgets that you didn’t really need? Then admit it and stop immediately. Most women find that a pleasant evening with just the two of them on the couch is sufficient. You don’t have to impress the most suitable partners with the most expensive gadgets. Women who are impressed by this are probably not suitable for building a long-term and financially healthy relationship. Having your own household, your own house, your own car and perhaps children later costs a lot of money. If you have reached this stage of life, you will be able to spend less money on flashy things. Will your relationship last?
Make more time for your girlfriend
Are you actually spending too much time with your friends? Then ask yourself what really matters to you: your girlfriend or your friends? Are these friends all single? If not, do activities together with your friends’ partners. Make sure your girlfriend doesn’t sit alone night after night or entire weekends. If you want to go out alone with your friends, make sure the ladies have a nice evening too. Suggest a movie night at one of your friends’ houses. Provide tasty snacks and drinks. Then the ladies have fun too.
Moderate your drinking
Do you regularly drink more than is actually good for you? Stop telling lies. First of all, you should try to cut down. No one likes having a drunk guy come home. In addition, drinking a lot also costs a lot of money. Promise to drink less. Drinking a little generally does not work. Try to agree with yourself that you will not drink alcohol during the week, for example. If you find this difficult, try increasing the number of drink-free days during the week. This is ultimately better for your health, your relationship and your wallet.
Give her sincere attention.
Did you really pay attention to your girlfriend when you were home? So when you came in you greeted her and told her about your inner feelings? Because most men have to say fewer words per day to feel comfortable, this does not mean that this applies to your girlfriend. Even if today was a day like all the others, take the time for your girlfriend. Sit quietly and ask her how her day was. Maybe she has met acquaintances that she wants to tell them about. Even if you don’t like her family or friends, listen to what she has to say. For most women it is important that they can tell their story at the end of the day. Even if she works a small part-time job, ask her how work went. Women associate many more emotions with most events than a man does. They want to express those emotions. Just listen, don’t try to provide solutions. The ladies just want to let off some steam.
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