How do you start a good flirt with a man you find attractive? How do you go through the process of flirting with the men? Do the men respond to your flirting behavior? How can you, as a woman, ensure that men notice you and respond to you when you want their attention? Above all, remain yourself and maintain your self-respect.
How to start a good flirt
All women can flirt, but they don’t always know it. How do you get the attention of men? Not all women are convinced that they have a certain gift in this at all. When dating or going out, flirting plays a major role in the evening. In fact, you’ll never get a chance to sell if you’ve given them the green light. That is a signal that you are interested in the person. Women are not the only people who are insecure in dating, men are too. Men also do not always know how to give the right attitude and respond to a woman at the right moments. Men are afraid of being rejected, afraid that they do not understand the woman properly. So if you see a man who you find very attractive and you want to communicate with him, you will also have to help the boy along the way. By helping him you also help yourself on the right path. Let the flirting begin.
In what way do you flirt?
Flirting doesn’t have to be in an offensive way. It also depends on your own personality. If you are a shy person you will probably start slowly, but be careful: make sure that the message gets through to the other person. If you are not so shy and are more offensive in your personality, you can be more present and use your voice more towards the man. Here are some good and useful tips for the next time you meet a nice guy.
For the shy women
Make eye contact with a smile
If you meet a man you find very attractive and you happen to look each other straight in the eye, make sure you give a gentle (but exciting) smile. This smile lets him know that you are open to being friendly to him.
When he smiles too, you turn around
Once you have given the smile and it has gone through the man, the next step is up to him. If he keeps smiling back, you keep walking (away). After a few seconds, you calmly turn around and smile at him again. He will probably be checking to see if he also finds you attractive and will see that you smile at him again and see confirmation for himself. If he has the courage he will come to you and talk to you. From that moment on you can take over.
Let your body speak
If you see a nice guy and have the right eye contact and he sees you completely, make sure you also show yourself physically (from a distance). Men are very visual. For example, you can raise your head a little and slowly massage/caress your neck. A man will already have it in his head that he is doing that. For example, if you are wearing a skirt you can put your legs into action.
For the not so shy women
Watch and be heard
Eye contact with the man is and remains the most powerful weapon in battle. If you are not shy, you can take it a step further by approaching him as he walks by or as you walk by him. You can say hello to him in a flirty way while looking him up and down. He will understand that you are flirting with him without thinking it is going too exaggerated or in too offensive a way. Too much flirting can be a turn-off.
Start a conversation
If you want to take the first step and make yourself clearer to the man, without overly putting yourself out there, you can start a conversation. Come up with an excuse to start a conversation, such as asking for direction or his opinion on something (anything). If he is interested in you he won’t have to work hard on the conversation because he is very friendly and flirting back. The conversation has started and take care of the follow-up yourself.
Ask for his phone number
Remember, you usually meet an attractive man spontaneously, so chances are you won’t meet him again anytime soon unless you take the step to ask for his details. If you’re not shy, you can just ask him for his phone number, or write your phone number on a piece of paper and give it to him with a smile. If there is real chemistry between you, he will want to contact you again as soon as possible!
Remember, the most important thing a woman can do to a man is smile. It provides a friendly and open way to flirt and gives the man more courage to go into it. Moreover, a smile makes a woman look her best.
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