It is over. After an initial relief, it turns out that you had quite a nice time together. You regret your decision to end the relationship or break up. How do you win your girlfriend back?
Get your life back on track
You have to bite the bullet now. Even though your relationship may have lasted a long time, you need to go it alone for now. Try to pull yourself together and make an improvement list. On this list you should put the things your ex has complained about in the last six months.
The improvement list
If you want to have any chance of winning your ex back, you have to show improvement. Women like to see you improve your life. Think: What did she complain about the most right before she broke up with her? Take the time to write it down so you can check it off physically and mentally.
Hygiene
Didn’t you clean up your dirty socks? Did you wear your t-shirts so long that they really started to smell? Did she think you should use deodorant? This falls into the personal care category. From now on you will get used to throwing your dirty laundry straight into the laundry basket. You brush your teeth in the morning and evening and shower every day. You don’t keep clothes on for too long. If you sweat a lot, you should wear clean clothes every day. It is better to change everything every day. So socks, underwear, t-shirt and blouse. You can easily wear pants for two days. If you dread doing laundry, hire someone or ask your mother for advice.
Household
Men generally have a different mess tolerance than women. Most people are only inclined to clean up when mothers or grandmothers come to visit. However, this will not score you any points at home. Now actually make the effort to clean things up. Cleaning up mess immediately is a habit. Brushed teeth? Put the toothbrush and toothpaste back in the right place. Newspaper out? If your partner has already read it, throw it in the waste paper bin. Are there dirty dishes? Clean this up as quickly as possible. to wash up. If the dishwasher has been running, try to empty it immediately. Then the dirty dishes on the counter can be cleaned up immediately. This looks better. The same applies to frying an egg: pan used: immediately wash and clean up. It is also important that you take the initiative to do something about the household. Don’t wait until your partner starts complaining.
Surprise her: spare her and tidy up
Today’s women usually work and sometimes need to relax. Be a gentleman. If she ever went out with friends, surprise her. Make sure the laundry is tidy and the kitchen is out of the way. Nothing is more frustrating than when you’ve been working and take a few moments for yourself to find a mess when you get home.
Emotional maturity
Just get on with your own life and show that you can take care of yourself too. Cook for yourself, go out with friends and try not to claim her too much. Today’s ladies also need some time for themselves. This could also mean that they want to read a book at their leisure without their husband asking for attention all the time.
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