Are you not sure what those looks, that smile or the signs a girl gives you mean? Maybe you hope she likes you but you doubt her intentions? Does she really like me? Girls do give signals, but sometimes they are not always clearly recognisable. The following article will help you pick up some signals that girls or women give off when they like someone.
Start a conversation
It is difficult to get to know someone without having a conversation with that person. A good conversation helps you find out what is important to that person, what their interests are. Listen carefully to the things she tells you so that you can reuse any topics later in a conversation. This proves that you listened to her and that you are interested in her. Besides, who doesn’t like it when someone listens to you and pays attention? While you’re talking to her, pay attention to the signals she’s giving you: specific words or hints.
All girls are different so watch out for signs. Listen to the tone of her voice. If she speaks in a softer way than normal, she is shy. Some girls start playing with their hair, straightening their clothes or just staring at you all the time.
Another signal is, for example, if women laugh at your small and actually stupid jokes. Be careful, you are not supposed to test this out before she gets completely bored with stupid jokes and abandons the conversation.
Some girls, when they are shy, cannot look you straight in the eye at all because they are afraid of exposing themselves too much.
Women who are interested usually laugh when you engage in conversation with them. They usually cannot hide a strong emotion . Women who are not interested can continue to watch but in a more conservative way without showing any emotion.
To flirt
Flirting can be a clear signal to a guy, especially if she is not used to doing it.
The problem with flirting is that some girls flirt without really realizing it. Some women flirt with guys all the time, but this means more that she wants to have fun and that she likes the guy. Not necessarily that she is interested in the young man. You can only identify clear signals if you know her a little better.
If you like a girl, don’t make the mistake of publicly flirting with another girl in her presence . Sometimes you can find out whether someone is jealous, but it can also end differently. If you flirt with another girl, she may think you’re not interested at all and stop trying.
Cuddly toys
You can also tell that a girl likes you when she regularly hugs you or hugs you. Cuddling is a way of getting close, of touching and promoting emotional feelings.
Little accidents
Girls who have a ,crush, on a guy are more likely to look for ways to see that person more often. So you may accidentally bump into her more often. Small accidents that involve physical contact are also a good excuse to touch someone.
Teasing the other person is also a good example of how to get closer to a guy. Usually guys like this and it is completely inconspicuous compared to friends. But the saying speaks for itself: teasing is asking for love .
On the other hand, she can pretend that her bicycle is broken or has no transportation, so that you can walk with her, etc. Please note, this is not a golden rule. Some are too shy to initiate such scenes.
Look and see
Observe how a girl or woman looks at you. Some are shy and will immediately look away when you look straight into her eyes. Then she is not ready to reveal her emotions. Others, on the other hand, have no problem with it and can also look you straight in the eye. Usually they have no problem taking the first step.
For example when you go out to a dance. Girls who are interested will look at you until you look back and then they quickly turn their heads away. Yet you catch them looking at you several times. Then you know she likes you even if they don’t reveal any real emotions. On the other hand, girls may regularly look at you and smile at you while flirting.
Her friends
Especially with young girls, you can quickly tell from her friends whether she has told them something about you. When her friends are watching, laughing and giggling, you know she has told all kinds of things about you. Make sure you interpret the signals correctly. It could also be that they are teasing her. So listen to the words: stop teasing or be quiet.
Assistance
Girls will do anything to attract attention. For example, if she shouts, I’m cold, you can offer her your sweater or jacket. That’s a sign that you care about her. If another guy arrives before you, she may reject the gesture and say she will use your jacket or sweater.
Laugh
If there is a girl you like, you can test her by smiling sweetly and kindly at her . If the girl is interested, she will smile back at your smile and usually look after you. If she is not impressed, she will still smile back friendly, but without looking or continuing to stare.
Be careful, if she is in front of her friends, she may try to hide it because she is too shy to admit that she has feelings for you. So she can ignore you, but just as you leave, she still looks after you.
Body language
You can learn a lot from her body language. This ranges from clear flirt signals to small innocent actions. There are many signals that can tell you whether she likes you. For example, if a girl talks to you with her hands away from her body, she is very confident talking to you. In contrast, if she has her arms crossed or is holding one arm in a closed position, it means she is nervous and shy about talking to you.
Another telltale sign could be when she regularly touches her lips with her hands, for example when she’s listening to you. Or another signal could be when she gently bites her lips regularly. That’s a sign that she likes you very much and is even a little excited.
The little things
Girls who like a guy go into a kind of ,care, mode. For example, she will do little things for you like simply getting you a drink when you are thirsty. But that could just as well be preparing food when a girl asks you out for dinner. She will do her best, decorate the table as beautifully as possible and probably make it a bit romantic.
Some girls will be too shy to ask the question themselves, not just because they are shy but maybe because they have had a bad experience with dating in the past. If you want to appear confident, you can always ask her to go out for dinner. If she quickly takes the bait, she can always suggest cooking a nice meal or going out for dinner.
Conclusion
The golden rule is that girls like to get attention, but you should certainly not exaggerate this because that will have the opposite effect. Too much attention, such as calling too much or wanting to do too much business, tends to give a feeling of stalking. So try to remain honest and sincere with yourself. If you like someone, you can test whether it is mutual and then go straight ahead and tell her.
Don’t wait too long to tell a girl that you like her . Waiting too long can signal that you’re not interested and you might give up.